Women lose themselves to jerks but don't take us lightly because women certainly choose to marry the right ones. 

• A woman needs a man who's secure and sure. We certainly do not need a man who says he loves you and tells you he's fallen out of love after 3 years. We certainly do not need a man who jumps to the next younger, more appealing woman he sees to feed his ego. A secure man doesn't need a fancy car to feel confident. A woman needs a man who is emotionally stable and secure.
• A woman needs a man who makes her feel special. She should come first more than anything.
• A woman needs a man who has ambition and potential. Not a man who loves to play all day under the sun. He knows when to push it and when to humble down. 
• A woman needs a man who's reasonably positive. You would not want to live the rest of your life surrounded with negativity and complains.
• A woman needs a man who stays. He does not run away at the sight of argument and storm. He seeks to understand. He communicates.
• A woman needs a man who is loyal and committed. Not the type who tells you he's asleep when he's actually whoring at dawn with some other women. A woman needs a man she can trust and is trustworthy.

I know him so well originally performed by Whitney Houston

Nothing is so good it lasts eternally
Perfect situations must go wrong
But this has never yet prevented me
From wanting far too much, for far too long....

Looking back, I could have done it differently
Won a few more moments, who can tell?
But it took time to understand the man
Now at least I know, I know him well

Chorus:
Wasn't it good (Wasn't it good)
Wasn't he fine (Wasn't it fine)
Isn't it madness, he can't be mine
But in the end, he needs a little bit more than me
For security (he needs his fantasy and freedom)
I know him so well....

No one in your life is with you constantly
No one is completely on your side, 
And though I moved my world to be with him
Still the gap between us is too wide...
Looking back (Looking back), I could've played it differently (differently)
Learned about the man before I fell, 
But I was ever so much younger then
Now at least I know, I know him well...

Chorus:
Wasn't it good (oh so good)
Wasn't he fine (so fine)
Isn't it madness, he can't be mine
Didn't I know, how it would go 
If I knew from the start
Why am I falling apart...

Wasn't he fine (Wasn't it fine)
Isn't it madness, he can't be mine
But in the end, he needs a little bit more than me
For security (he needs his fantasy and freedom)
I know him so well....

It took some time to understand him
I know him so well